Kathleen O’Hara is a psychotherapist who faced the murder of her son and his roommate. Kathleen reveals that no amount of professional training prepares you for the sudden death of your own child. She describes facing the “ocean of grief” that occurs when you lose your child and describes how she crossed that ocean to survive. This is a Lipstick Wisdom produced video. Run time of 3:16.

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Kathleen’s book, “A Grief Like No Other: Surviving the Violent Death of Someone You Love”, is the book no one wants to ever have to buy; sadly, many people continue to need it. From 9/11 to Cindy Sheehan’s son – from mass tragedies like the recent London bombings to Law and Order type crimes that make the news only to be replaced by another name. As such, more people are left with the aftermath of dealing with the violent death of a loved one. It brings its own special brand of grieving since victim’s families can spend years dealing with legal ramifications, guilt, and a myriad of other circumstances that don’t accompany “normal” deaths. Kathleen O’Hara knows both sides of this coin. As a therapist, she has counseled hundreds of people dealing with grief. As a mother, she saw her worst fears realized when her college-aged son was brutally murdered in 1999. In the aftermath of Aaron’s murder, O’Hara developed the seven stage journey that is at the heart of A Grief Like No Other. Although this is a book for those left behind in the aftermath of violence, it offers concrete and practical steps and stages, allowing family and friends safe passage through this incredibly harrowing journey.